2. concerned in the matter in a non-hostile way
3. confront Joel in a direct gentle way
4. honest concern Joel motivated by the spirit of fascination than honest and scripture
5. was your discernment correct, and is Joel in danger of idolizing other things over god
6. Joel is in hypocracy and he is unable to have a respectable discussion.
7. its a matter of truth and prioritization in the community. Joel has become a dividing spot. you were ready to let it bigone. jungle jargon backing up Joel.
8. blamed Joel after the fact, it was not only Joel fault
9. i dont find untruth to be respectable even if it is polite. Joel hates to be corrected. The matter became highly confrontational.
10. Either Joel is dishonest, or delusional on this topic